Build Your Edge. Start Dating Better.
You’ve read The Dating Edge Blueprint.
Now it’s time to move from insight to action with a crew that's committed to real results.
“Working with Bates helped me regain the confidence I needed to start dating again. I now have an incredibly beautiful, intelligent, and loving girlfriend. Thanks to Bates, I intend to propose in just a few months. Dreams do come true!”
- Matt W.
Transform Your Dating Life
You're in the right place if you want to have successful dates, date high-quality women, feel confident in every interaction, and build a lifestyle that naturally attracts the kind of relationship you want.
Here’s what we’ll help you do:
- Become the man women genuinely want to date—not by faking confidence, but by developing real, unshakable self-assurance
- Optimize your health and energy so you look, feel, and perform at your best
- Master dating apps and real-world interactions so you can land first dates with ease
- Navigate relationships with confidence, whether you're dating casually or looking for something serious
- Develop a lifestyle that makes dating effortless, where opportunities come to you
What We'll Help You Avoid
- Wasting hours swiping on dating apps with zero results
- Feeling awkward, nervous, or second-guessing what to say or do next
- Becoming a try-hard or overcompensating to impress women
- Using gimmicky “pickup artist” tactics that feel unnatural
- Chasing relationships while neglecting your own growth and lifestyle
- Spending time on the wrong women, giving into loneliness, or dragging out the early dating phase
Testimonials
“Consistently getting to witness and absorb knowledge from Bates has led to not only better dates, but more confidence in who I am, better communication in my needs, and more connection with not only potential partners but with my close friends. He’s an absolute stud who speaks only from experience.”
- Tory H.
“Bates has a keen ability to ask questions that have helped me to not only question the way I approach relationships but completely approach them in a whole new light”
- Joel C.
“Bates’s superpower is being authentically himself and empowering other men to do the same. This approach helps his clients build more genuine connections and healthy, transparent relationships. If you’re tired of living on the “wide path” traveled by most guys, join Bates on the “narrow path” and find yourself in healthier relationships.”
- Steven H.
“Working with Bates helped me streamline my time and become the healthiest version of myself. I built muscle, felt more confident, and noticed women responding way better to my approach. If you're on the fence, check out his work. You won’t regret it.”
- Will R.
“Bates is incredibly knowledgeable when it comes to relationships and dating. His perspective is rare, authentic, real, and effective. What I value most is that he practices what he preaches. He’s done a ton of experimenting, talked to and worked with all kinds of people, and pulled together a playbook of best practices that actually work. No gimmicks, no games. It’s about building real connection and real relationships. Anyone would be lucky to work with Bates.”
- Bradley J.
“I used to think that getting in a relationship would slow me down... that it would be a distraction... that it would get in the way of my goals. And then Bates said something to me that changed my life... “1+1=4”. I’m now in a VERY happy relationship and I can safely say... he was right. The RIGHT relationship is a catalyst for growth, not a hinderance.”
- Corey H
“Talking with Bates is always refreshing. He articulates concepts clearly and with humility, making it easy to understand and genuinely want to consider his perspective. Whether you agree or not, he invites thoughtful engagement. His mix of passion, compassion, and real-life experience fires me up and gives me hope for what’s possible! It’s not just theory; he’s lived it and it shows. I seriously appreciate him. Now I just need to land that first date and start stacking some experience of my own.”
- Mike C.
“Bates has a gift for encouraging, fostering, and strengthening others. Whether you are in need of relationship insight, fundamental health guidance, or just feeling lost and need a fellow to help right your ship, Bates is that man. I have experienced the benefits of being his casual listener, client, and friend, and I am better for it. Confidence, strength, and vitality are within your reach. Whatever your burdens, Chris may not be able to carry it for you…but he can carry you.”
- Kevin F
“Talking with Bates about dating and women has been both inspiring and eye-opening. Everything he shares is rooted in integrity, whether it’s approaching women with honesty, being clear when it’s not a fit, and showing up instead of avoiding tough conversations. His approach simplifies what often feels like a chaotic dating world and helps you focus on what really matters. I appreciate that his guidance aligns with one of my core values: authenticity. He offers practical steps to stay grounded and true to yourself, even in a complicated dating landscape. Bates makes the whole process feel clear, actionable, and genuinely aligned with building something real.”
- Ben A.
"I honestly think Bates helped me with his knowledge, knowing what I'm worth, helping me focus on myself, and making sure I'm on the right path. Thanks to the value he offered, I know that I can take any woman out on a date I'm interested in and I know what I'm capable of."
- Hans M.
What's Included in The Community
- Live Weekly Coaching Calls Every Wednesday at 6pm CST. Break down wins, roadblocks, bios, convos, and everything in between with direct support and structure. Can’t attend the call? No problem! All calls will be recorded and accessible.
- Exclusive AMA Video Library On-demand video answers to real community questions, apps, text game, first date structure, boundaries, red flags, and more.
- The First Date Conversion Course Your tactical guide to turning matches and real-life approaches into first dates and real attraction."
- Testosterone Optimization Ebook Improve energy, focus, sleep, and confidence with science-backed lifestyle upgrades."
- High-Integrity Men’s Community You’ll be surrounded by other guys building momentum, trading feedback, and showing up with honesty, not ego."
This Is Your Edge: Action, Not Theory
This is a training ground for men who are done playing small and ready to lead with clarity, confidence, and consistency.
You’ll build momentum fast by:
- Setting a clear 30-day dating goal
- Posting bios, convos, and breakdowns for real feedback
- Getting weekly structure, coaching, and accountabilit
- Repping out the social reps instead of just reading about it
Most communities are either too soft, too cheesy, or filled with theory. This one is built for action.
Ready for Even More Support?
These options are only available to active community members.
*Spots are limited. You must apply. You may be waitlisted.
If you're ready to accelerate your results and want high-level support tailored to your exact situation, here’s how to go deeper:
🔓 $2,500 Assessment Upgrade
- A full-scale deep dive to remove guesswork and build your exact roadmap
- Includes a custom dating strategy, dating app and text review, bloodwork feedback, and a done-for-you routine to optimize your health, confidence, and results
- Includes 1 month of full community access
🔓 1:1 Coaching Options
For men committed to going all-in on their dating life, energy, mindset, and mission, includes direct coaching, 1:1 support, and custom-tailored resources
- $4,000 per month
- Weekly deep dives plus ongoing support
- Includes 1 month of full community access
- $9,000 upfront for 3 months
- Commit to the full transformation and save $3,000
- Includes 3 months of community access
Take the Next Step
You’ve laid the groundwork with The Dating Edge Blueprint. Now it’s time to apply it with clarity, feedback, and action.
$150 per week or $300 for 4 Weeks
No fluff. No games. Just reps that get results. Let’s build your edge, together.